So Many Changes

Hello, Everyone.

I have not gone anywhere … well, I’ve moved to another state in United State of America. I’ve made a huge decision by moving from state of Massachusetts to Illinois in Sept 2023. My adult children decided to join me in November, 2023 which makes this Momma very happy. I cannot express how much that means to me as a Mom and the relationships that I have with them.

Since the last post from 2019 post to currently 2024, I became victim of an abuse, made new friends locally where I previously co-owns a home, became homeless then I’ve bounced house to house for only during winter months, homeless shelter in different town in a undisclosed location, made new friends, divorced from my partner being finalized, first apartment, and a mini job at barber shop that became my family, dating world which result wasn’t successful which was fine because I was exploring what was out there and I’ve decided to focus on myself again, then the big move decision that was something I needed. As of April 30, 2024, I’ve suspended my Facebook and I honestly don’t know when or if I’ll go back to the Facebook.

After my children joined me here in Illinois in November, 2023, our lives were starting off pretty rocky. Our cat, Stonie’s health have declined very quickly after the arrival. Stonie was taken to vets, and 24 hours emergency several times. He unfortunately passed away 2 weeks later. Stonie was grey cat (We strongly believe he was an Russian Blue ) who lived until he was 18 years old. Stonie is a big traveler in his lifetime and he was loved by Allister who is my first oldest child. They were inseparable since they were tiny together and I’ve never seen a strong bond than these two had for each other. About 3 weeks later after passing of Stonie, we brought home 2 beautiful cats from local shelters and these two cats have bonded very quickly. They definitely keep this house entertaining and the house feels light again. Our newest cats names are Calcifer and Ash. Calcifer’s name came from the tv show called, ” Howl’s Moving Castle. ” which was named by Allister. I’ve brought home a cat and his name is Ash. I’m a big fan of a tv show called, Supernatural so that’s where Ash name came from.

Ash is grey and white cat. We actually do not know what breed he is but I’ve brought the DNA for him. I’ll be getting the result in few weeks. What are your guesses?

Cal (aka Calcifer) is black and white cat that resemblance Tuxedo breed.

It is getting late here and I think its time to pull out a string play for them to prey on.

Until next time . . .

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I’m Amanda, someone who’s always reflecting, growing, and finding meaning in the ups and downs of life. I write about my journey with honesty—whether it’s navigating health struggles, rediscovering joy in small moments, or reflecting on shows I’ve watched and places I’ve been. Creativity and expression are important to me, whether it’s through words, gaming, or sharing pieces of my story.

I value connection and community, especially between deaf, hard of hearing, and hearing people, and I’m passionate about creating spaces where understanding and empathy can thrive. Alongside that, I carry a love for nostalgia, little celebrations (like birthdays and milestones), and spontaneous choices that end up holding deep meaning—like a tattoo that tells a personal story.

Above all, I’m learning to embrace each season of life with resilience, reflection, and a touch of humor.

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